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  David

  Women like nice guys, but they aren't attracted to them. Nice guys often don't show the confidence or strength that women are attracted to.

  
  Don't be quiet and timid. Around her or in public. Just ask her out. Don't pour your heart into it. Don't act like you care about rejection.

  
  Don't be needy. Don't call her all the time. If you don't call, she'll call you anyway.

  
  Don't be a pushover. Don't do everything she wants, even if you want to do it. Tell her it has to be at 8:00pm instead of 7:00pm or Friday instead of Saturday.

  
  Don't give her money or gifts too often. Limit it to holidays, anniversaries, and about 6 random days during the year when she doesn't expect it.

  
  Don't be clingy. You don't love her until you've dated her for at least a month or two. Don't act like it; don't say it.

  
  To sum it up, don't be too nice or too attached until the relationship is well established. Don't listen to anyone who tells you differently. Especially women!!!!
   

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  James89

  I have been a nice guy always trying to be courteous to others and treat them kindly. I acted like that because i was shy, lacked confidence with girls that is with anything else i would just haphzardly jump into any crazy situation. In my relationship with girls i think i did come of as being to needy, I was so accepting to anything they did and was preaty laid back. I should of said something if i had a problem with the situation. You don't want to seem desperate. I have learned however you cant always be nice, the guy has to make the girl work to. In other words before you can be yourself you must first find the things that are seriously wrong with you and confront them head on. If your a nice guy dont be afraid to do something new, for example do something completely unexpected and crazy, people will be startled and amazed that they haven't noticed you before.

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  Kate23

  I believe most women do, but they don't want a wimp that cries at everything and is a push over. Nice and a wimp are different things. Only women that are emotionally or mentally unstable chose guys that aren't nice.

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  Charlotte

  Bad boys do have some appeal, however, I don't think that most women really want a TRULY bad person. The person has to be a pretty good guy underneath it all. The only reason I can think of that a woman would want a truly awful human being is that she herself has very low self-esteem. I tend to prefer nice guys myself, being as I'm a nice girl:)

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